For families and youth who are transitioning, it is critical to have access to a wealth of resources that will educate, inform and support. This includes books, articles, therapists, medical doctors, community events and more. Special programming specifically for trans* youth will be listed here. Over the years we’ve received many questions from parents and caregivers regarding medical and social transition. Here are some of the questions and answers in an easy to read document.

Explore our digital toolkit for LGBTQIA+ folks, families, and their communities; it is a resource guide based on content from the “Be the Light” series, sponsored by the Jewish Women’s Foundation. 

Civil Rights & Hate Crimes Informational Brochures

Need information on your civil rights? Want to learn more about the threat of hate crimes and what to do if you are a victim? Check out these resources from the FBI:
Civil Rights Brochure | Hate Crimes Threat Guide | Hate Crimes and the FBI

Transgender Crisis Hotline

If you are transgender and in a crisis situation, you can call in the U.S. 877-565-8860.

The Trevor Project

This is another great place for help in a crisis situation. They can be reached at 866-488-7386 (phone), by text (text START to 678-678), or on the computer from their website.

Child and Adolescent Gender Services (PDF)

Talking to your Pediatrician or Family Doctor (PDF)

(Combatting) Gender/Body Dysphoria (PDF)

Medical Tools For Your Gender Journey (PDF) via

Name Changes; Whom to Inform Checklist (PDF)

Cost of Gender Transition


One of the key articles of clothing that transitioning FtM people need is a good binder. In order to appear more masculine, trans* guys want to minimize the appearance of breasts. Binders can be expensive. For those fortunate enough to successfully complete top surgery, the binders are no longer needed. You can donate your binders or get one from In a Bind, a program through the TransActive Gender Center.

Puberty Blockers

Explore these articles from the Mayo Clinic and UCSF regarding puberty blockers for transgender and gender-diverse youth.

Preparing for Surgery

If you are a trans man and getting ready for top surgery or a concerned parent, here are some pointers for packing and prepration. If you are just in the consult phase, here are some questions to ask the sugeon.

HIV Prevention Resources

Recommended FTM Surgeons / Recommended MTF Surgeons

A list of surgeons noted for their Gender Reassignment surgeries. Stand with Trans also recommends the following surgeons:

Dr. Barm & Dr. Deboni (Syracuse, NY)

Dr. Brownstein & Dr. Crane (Greenbrae, CA)

Dr. Costas (Concord, MA)

Dr. Garamonne (Fort Meyers, FL)

Dr. Johnson (Omaha, NE)

Dr. MacPhee (Raleigh, NC)

Dr. McLean (Ontario, Canada)

Dr. Medalie (Beachwood, OH)

Dr. Mosser (San Francisco, CA)

Dr. Santucci (Austin, TX)

Dr. Tholen (Minneapolis, MN)

Dr. Wolf (Commerce Twp, MI)

Disclaimer: Our list of mental health professionals and gender-confirming surgeons is provided for informational purposes only. Stand With Trans does not provide mental health or medical services and does not take responsibility for any such services you may seek or receive.

My child is transgender… now what?

If learning that your child is trans is very new to you, start with this guide just for you! Gain advice from parents who have walked your path, learn about community resources, support groups, and tips for having a conversation with your child’s school.

Ally Parents

Many of you out there do not have the support you so richly deserve. As “Ally Parents” we have lots of LOVE and understanding to go around. Do you need a friendly ear to just listen? Do you just want to ask a question or say “hello?” It is so important to us that anyone who is transitioning or thinking about coming out has the tools they need. What we can offer is a kind word, a loving, virtual hug, or perhaps a suggestion or two. We will not judge.

Be the Light Digital Toolkit

Based on content from the “Be the Light” series sponsored by the Jewish Women’s Foundation, the toolkit is designed for LGBTQIA+ folks, their families, and community.

Support Group for Grandparents

Check out this support group for grandparents of LGBTQ+ folks, from the Spahr Center in Marin County, CA. 

Trans Youth Equality Foundation

The Trans Youth Equality Foundation provides education, advocacy, and support for transgender and gender non-conforming children and youth and their families.

Trans Youth Family Allies

TYFA empowers children and families by partnering with educators, service providers, and communities, to develop supportive environments in which gender may be expressed and respected.


Founded in 1972 with the simple act of a mother publicly supporting her gay son, PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) is the nation’s largest family and ally organization. Uniting people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) with families, friends, and allies, PFLAG is committed to advancing equality and full societal affirmation of LGBTQ people through its threefold mission of support, education, and advocacy.

Schools In Transition: A Guide for Supporting Transgender Students in K-12 Schools (PDF)

Schools In Transition: A Guide for Supporting Transgender Students in K-12 Schools is a first-of-its-kind resource providing a blueprint for safe, supportive and inclusive school environments for transgender youth. The groundbreaking guide, written for administrators, teachers, parents, and other adults who work with youth, covers topics ranging from basic concepts of gender and the importance of affirming gender identity to best practices for restroom access and working with unsupportive parents. For more information on the creation of this guide click here.

Change of Name

Changing One’s Legal Name in Michigan (By County)

Change of Birth Certificate (Michigan)

Change of Name Checklist

Helpful checklist to catch all of the various places (businesses, agencies, etc) to update your name after it has been legally changed


Changing Birth Certificate Sex Designations: State-By-State Guidelines

Michigan’s SB-218 Info Sheet

Sage Metro Detroit developed an info sheet explaining Michigan’s harmful Senate Bill 218 which — if passed — will deny transgender high school students from participating on sports teams that affirm their gender identity and force them to compete on teams that match the gender assigned to them at birth.

The Transgender Law Center

Transgender Law Center works to change law, policy, and attitudes so that all people can live safely, authentically, and free from discrimination regardless of their gender identity or expression.

Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund

Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund is committed to ending discrimination based on gender identity and expression and to achieving equality for transgender people through public education, test-case litigation, direct legal services, and public policy efforts.

Know Your Rights

A Guide for Trans and Gender Nonconforming Students.

Metro Detroit/Southeast Michigan


Affirmations is a 501 (c) 3 nonprofit organization serving people of all sexual orientations and gender identities, housed in a state-of-the-art, multi-use facility in the heart of downtown Ferndale, at the Northern border of the City of Detroit.

FtM Detroit

A collective devoted to creating a safe space in which trans men in the greater Detroit area can build community, find support, and engage in activism.

University of Michigan Transgender Support Groups

Various support groups and resources at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor.

Ask the Expert Videos

Check out videos with experts in mental health, endocrinology, legal matters, and more in our Facebook Live series.

Stand with Trans Book List

We have compiled lists of transgender related children’s books, young adult books, books for parents, adult books, documentaries, movies, and television shows. If you have read a book or seen a film that is not on our list, please let us know so we can update our list.

Stand Together News

Created and written by trans/gender non-conforming youth, the newsletter seeks to educate and empower their community. Check it out!

Putting Out the Trans Flags

The history behind the transgender flag, symbol, and colors.

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